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When Loving Well Means Taking a Huge Leap of Faith {+ Finding Joy Episode #34 with Hands Free Mama}

May 24, 2017 • 39 Comments

Take the leap of faith.

I didn’t know if I would have the courage write this blog post to you. But thanks to a lot of nudging from the Holy Spirit, and by God’s grace and strength, I know this is what I must do.

Before I let you in on some pretty big, exciting news, let me start by saying thank you. Thank you for being a part of this community. Thank you for sharing your heart with me week after week here on the blog and in the email newsletters. Thank you for supporting this ministry. Thank you for coming alongside me in prayer.

I’ve said it many times and I’ll say it again: Writing may be something God has called me to, but you guys are one of the main reasons why I write. You are the reason why I stay up editing podcasts when I get home from working my full-time job. You are the reason why I pour my soul out week after week, in the hopes that my story might inspire and encourage you in your own faith journey.

So thank you. Thank you for being here and thank you in advance for supporting me in what I’m about to share with you.

When I first met my husband eight years ago, I had no idea how our story would unfold. But I did know two things: one, he loved me; and two, he wanted to be a business owner someday. After moving from Indiana to the great state of Minnesota and then to Iowa, I knew three things: one, he loved me; two, he still wanted to be a business owner; and three, we wanted to settle somewhere warm — a place with plenty of beach and mountain scenery to go around.

From the day our moving truck unloaded our belongings here in Des Moines, we knew this city was only a chapter in our journey. We just didn’t know how long we’d be here.

Lord, please speak to my husband when the time is right to move. You know our hearts and what we desire, but we also want Your will to be done, so we will stay here until you say go. 

In January, a year and a few months after we’d moved, my husband came to me and said, “I think it’s time.”

He’d already been looking at businesses to acquire for more than a year, and this time, the Lord brought a venture to him that was too good to ignore.

Five months later, I am thrilled to let you in on our little secret:Read More

Spread the Light, Be the Light

May 15, 2017 • 14 Comments

I might come across as being adventurous and completely independent, but there are some things I don’t like to do alone — particularly doctor’s appointments. So, you can imagine my horror when I found out I needed to go to Mayo Clinic for a two-week physical therapy program. Alone. Without family, friends or any of the comforts of home.

Be the light. {Matthew 5:14}

“I don’t know if I can do this,” I told my husband.

He reassured me that I could and I would, and that everything was going to be just fine. Easy for you to say, I thought to myself.

Last Monday marked the start of that two-week program, and I’ll be honest with you — it’s been rough. But it’s also been full of some pretty wonderful God moments, and I’d like to share one of those moments with you this morning …

Exhaustion hit me by the end of day two. I desperately missed my husband. I missed my dog. I missed home. As I left the waiting room of the Mayo Building’s 14th floor, I knew I had two options:

1) Go back to the guesthouse and cry into a pillow until my lungs gave out.
2) Sit in the Mayo lobby, breathe, read God’s Word and pray.

My flesh wanted to go with option one, but I could feel the Holy Spirit guiding me toward option two. So, that’s exactly what I did. I took the elevator down to the lobby, plopped myself into a chair, closed my eyes and just breathed.

Open your eyes. I heard the Spirit say. 

And when I did, I was amazed at what I saw. Before I sat down, my focus was only on myself and my problems. Now I saw the lobby with fresh eyes. I didn’t just see and feel my pain, I saw hundreds of hurting people. Hundreds of people looking for HOPE. Hundreds of people looking for JOY. Hundreds of people needing PEACE. Hundreds of people just wanting to be LOVED and HEALED.Read More

Reminders to Find Sacred Rest in God {+ Seven Free Printables!}

May 8, 2017 • 7 Comments

I can make chocolate chip cookies in my sleep. I’m a seasoned chef who knows how to make almost any kind of ethnic cuisine. I could swim five miles right here and now if you asked me to. But rest? I’ve never been good at rest.

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I can count on one hand how many successful naps I’ve taken in my life, and I rarely clock more than seven hours of shut eye a night.

As I write this post to you on a sunny Saturday morning, my husband is still asleep. I, on the other hand, woke up four hours ago. I’ve already exercised, driven to the store, made breakfast for both of us (his smoothie is in the freezer), and sent out an email newsletter.

I love the rush I feel when I check something off my to-do list (fellow checklist lovers, can I get an amen?!). I aim for efficiency in everything I do. I relish in productivity.

But at what cost?

This is a question I’ve been asking myself a lot lately, and I’d love to challenge you to ask yourself the same question today.

Not making time to rest in God comes with a cost.

When we don’t make rest a priority, we don’t just put our spiritual health at risk. Our physical health, relationships and work life are all affected by rest. And when we don’t get enough of it — whether that be physical, spiritual or both — eventually, we will burn out. I’ve seen this play out in my life, and the lives of many I love.

God calls us to more rest and less stress. More being and less doing.

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So, today I’m saying enough is enough. I want more rest and less stress. More being and less doing. More freedom and less obligation.

We cannot be everything to everyone and do everything that needs to be done under the sun.

We cannot be everything to everyone and do everything that needs to be done under the sun.

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When we run to God and seek His rest, Psalm 91:4 promises us: “He will cover you with his feathers, and under his wings you will find refuge; his faithfulness will be your shield and rampart.”

So will we make time for rest? Will we stop making excuses and finally give ourselves permission to take a step back so we can recharge and find refuge in the shadows of our King’s wings?

In the shadow of His wings, our souls can find refuge.

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I’ve created seven quote graphics (scroll up for the first!) to encourage you to rest in God throughout the week. You can even print them off by simply clicking on the photo for a downloadable version. My hope is for all of us to start making rest a daily habit. Even if it’s just 10 minutes, a little goes a long way. Set aside your computer and phone, turn off all distractions and lean in to hear what God might have to say to you in that moment. Pray with me:

We commit our rest to you, dear Father. Do with it what you will, and give us the peace we need to put our agendas down and simply rest in you. Speak to us, Lord. We are yours, and we are listening.

A world without Sabbath would be like a summer without flowers.Sometimes the best training is to rest. -Cristiano RonaldoPsalm 4:8Chuck Swindoll quotes about rest in GodCharles Spurgeon Quote Rest in God“Come to me, all you who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest." -Matthew 11:28

Learning How to Persevere Like Jesus

March 27, 2017 • 10 Comments

If God has called us to it, He will see us through it. We can #persevere because the same Spirit that raised Jesus from the grave lives in us!

How do we persevere like Jesus? We allow God to be our strength and do the impossible in and through us. Read more from my latest post for iBelieve.com.

“You’ve almost got it, Lily!” I cheered, putting on my best coaching face. “All you need to do is keep those feet together and remember to kick from the hips, OK?”

The 9-year-old watched as I demonstrated the butterfly kick one more time.

“Yeah! Got it, coach!” she shouted and smiled.

One, two, three deep breaths she took before pushing off the wall. But her enthusiasm and focus weren’t enough to correct her stroke. She was still kicking with her feet apart, and she knew it.

“Coach, I don’t think I’m cut out to swim butterfly. I’m just not any good at it, and it’s really, really hard,” she said after touching the wall.

“Oh, Lily, that’s not true. Your stroke is looking so much better than when you first joined the team,” I reassured her. “I know you’re going to be a great butterflyer someday. It’s just going to take a little bit of time, patience and perseverance,” I reassured her.

But my pep talk only made her brow furrow further.

Her frustration reminded me of the struggles I faced when I first learned how to swim. Let’s just say if you watched my swim lesson tapes, you’d never believe I was a record-setting sprinter in high school. As a matter of fact, I vividly remember my mom asking me if I was sure I wanted to join the swim team when I brought home the flyer in sixth grade.

I’m not a swimmer anymore, but if I’m honest, sometimes my disease makes me feel like I’m not cut out to be or do much of anything.

It’s hard to persevere when the task before us feels too great to overcome.

If God has called us to it, He will see us through it. We can persevere because the same Spirit that raised Jesus from the grave lives in us!

Maybe you’re in (or have been in) a situation where you want to throw in the towel. You’ve tried everything and you still haven’t been able to conquer the mountain that’s in front of you.

When we reach a crossroads in trials of endurance, we have a decision to make. Do we stay the course or do we let things go? Do we stand and fight or do we raise our white flag in surrender?

In these moments, our first step is to pray — to take our requests, thoughts and fears before God and ask Him to help us make sense of our situation. We can run to Him and know that we are heard and that He will speak to us, because, as Scripture tells us in Luke 11:9, when we faithfully ask for something in prayer, God promises He will answer. The response might not come overnight or be as clear as we want it to be, but I believe that the Holy Spirit does speak to us in a matter of time.

I don’t know what your situation is. Maybe you’re trying to be the light in a family of unbelievers. Maybe you’re working tirelessly to get that job you’ve always wanted. Maybe you’re longing to catch the attention of the cute guy at work or school. But whatever hard thing you’re facing, this I know for sure:

If God has called you to it, He will help you get through it.

If God has called you to it, He will help you get through it.

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Please join me over at iBelieve.com to read the rest of this post.

35 Self-Care Ideas to Show Yourself Some Love | #365LoveWellProject

March 13, 2017 • 23 Comments

We can't love God or others well if we're not taking good care of ourselves. -Lauren Gaskill #365lovewellproject

When I started the #365LoveWellProject, my main focus was on loving God and loving others better. But after a winter full of stress and activity, including three sinus infections, surgery, increased work demands and signing with a book agent, here’s what I’ve come to realize: we can’t love God or others well if we’re not taking good care of ourselves.

Today’s post was inspired by this realization, and my hope is it will move us to make more space for self-care in our lives.

We don’t need an excuse to treat ourselves to a daily dose of self-care. All we need is a desire and drive to start taking better care of ourselves.

If we believe what the Bible says is true — that our bodies are holy temples (1 Corinthians 6:19-20) and that rest is a vital part of life (Exodus 34:21) — then we cannot afford to neglect our wellbeing. Our spiritual health will suffer if we ignore taking care of the body and soul that God entrusted us with.

We can’t love God or others well if we’re not taking good care of ourselves.

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The key to maintaining good spiritual health is living intentionally — organizing our schedules in a way that honors both God, others and ourselves.

Today, let’s explore some ways we can start taking better care of ourselves with these 35 self-care ideas.

35 Self-Care Ideas #365lovewellproject

Don’t feel like you have to do all of these in the next week or even month. Do whatever works for you, when it works for you. The goal is to get us thinking more about how we can nourish our own lives in the way we work to nourish others. In this way, we will be better equipped to meet the needs of others, because we will have first tended the gardens of our own soul.

  1. Pray. Pray. Pray. Commit to spending time with God daily and being in His Word.
  2. Take deep breaths throughout the day. If you’re wondering why I have this listed as number two and why it’s so important, head over to my friend Heather’s blog to learn more. There is power in the way we breathe!
  3. Keep a gratitude journal.
  4. Go for a walk outside.
  5. Write yourself a love letter. Stop thinking about all the things you aren’t and celebrate the wonderfully and fearfully made person that you are.
  6. Smile more. It just might change your perspective on something.
  7. Practice your passions. What do you love to do but haven’t had time to do lately? Go do that thing now.
  8. Give yourself permission to clear your schedule and do absolutely nothing. The world won’t end, I promise.
  9. Learn how to say no.
  10. Spend quality time with loved ones.
  11. Treat yourself to take out. My top picks: Thai, Indian, pizza or anything Mediterranean.
  12. Fill your house with sweet smells by baking a sweet treat. Need a few ideas? Here’s five of my favorite dessert recipes, straight from my old food blog: Coconut Flour Chocolate Chip Cookie Bars, Lemon Bars and Peanut Butter Brownies. (If you don’t feel like baking, you could always light a Yankee Candle Sugar Cookie Candle instead.)
  13. Paint your nails or go get them done.
  14. Take a warm shower, dry off and moisturize your body from head to toe.
  15. Give yourself a massage with relaxing essential oils or go to a masseuse.
  16. Get your hair and makeup done just because, then spend a night out on the town with your love or some friends.
  17. Take a bubble bath and listen to music or the latest Finding Joy Podcast episodes.
  18. Invigorate your face with a homemade mask (recipe is from my friend Amanda of Heartbeet Kitchen).
  19. Snuggle with your pet.
  20. Buy yourself flowers.
  21. Eat and sleep well.
  22. Turn off all electronics at least one hour before bedtime.
  23. Stay hydrated.
  24. Laugh.
  25. Take a nap. (Or at least lie down, close your eyes and try to clear your mind.)
  26. Put on your favorite song and dance around the room like no one’s watching.
  27. Play a fun game.
  28. Catch up on pleasure reading.
  29. Listen to uplifting praise and worship music throughout the day.
  30. Stop devoting time to things that make you feel bad.
  31. Plan something to look forward to — a girls night out, a staycation or a getaway.
  32. Serve others any way that you can. Hold the door, carry groceries or buy the person’s coffee behind you.
  33. Let go and let God.
  34. Make your life a little easier: cut back on housework if you can, buy pre-chopped vegetables and preassembled meals if you need to.
  35. Look in the mirror and remind yourself, “I am a child of the risen King.”

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5 Tips to Help You Read the Bible In a Year

February 27, 2017 • 3 Comments

How to Read the Bible In a Year

It may be March, but it’s never too late to make a new resolution! How about resolving to read the entire Bible in a year? Here’s how.

I carefully lowered the steaming cup of chocolate chai from my mouth, not believing what my ears were hearing. I tried to swallow the sip of tea I’d just taken but nearly choked as I tried to process what my podcast guest had just said.

Lord, is she really talking about reading the Bible in a year?

I couldn’t believe it. Not because I thought it was impossible. Not because I thought it was something only old people did. But because this woman was the third person in a week who had brought it up and encouraged me to do the same.

As a writer, speaker and podcast host, I have the blessed privilege of getting to know a lot of amazing women who champion different causes for the kingdom. But what’s more wonderful than connecting with these sisters is the fact that God often speaks to me through the interactions we have.

So, when over the course of a week three of these sisters recently brought up reading the Bible in a year … let’s just say God had my attention. The first and second time someone brought it up, I thought nothing of it. I shrugged the idea off as something I didn’t have time for. But when the third woman started talking about it, I knew God was trying to tell me something.

After we finished recording the podcast that day, I immediately started praying about reading the Bible in a year. Is this something you really want me to do, Lord? How can I make time for this on top of all of the other commitments I already have?

Almost immediately, I could hear Him say: You can always make time for me.

The more I prayed, the more I felt God calling me to ask my husband to join me in reading the Bible the whole way through.

“What do you think, love,” I asked my husband that night at dinner.

He looked up from his plate with excitement in his eyes. “I actually think that’s a great idea. We just have to figure out a way to do it that works for us.”

I wish I could tell you that we began our Bible reading plan that night and have stuck to it every night since. I wish I could tell you we have this whole “how to read the bible in a year” thing figured out. We don’t. But we’re getting there, and we’re learning by trial and error how to do it well.

And so, today I want to encourage you with some tips I’ve learned from our first attempt to read the Bible the whole way through.

Please join me over at iBelieve.com to read the rest of this post.

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